again... life is not as it seems.. and there is too much chance involved.. how likely is it that someone you completely lost touch with (including invalid phone number after several years) turns up in the very shop you went to for finding out about them exactly when you go there.. amazing world.
and a second thought... sometimes the people we are learning (or have learnt) from are not stable in their lifes themselves, suffering maybe even from the same things. and still.. they do not loose their validity as guidance.