I wonder if it is any use in life to worry about small things (and maybe even big ones?). I mean, there are certain things that might happen and that won't be nice. But if they need to happen, they will if we worried or not. (Actually, sometimes i guess they might happen even faster..)
So if things happen anyway, the difference lies in our own attitude: do we enjoy the good things we have and the possibilities in life, or do we spend all this time with worrying?
Actually, i wonder if it is about what one believes in; if one is generally optimistic and seeing chances at every corner, or if one is afraid of new things, trying to keep the familiar as unchanged as possible?
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Worrying keeps you aware of things that matter. When worrying doesn't matter is with the things that you can't affect - like the bus being late or being fired due to the company's bankrupt. But it takes some kind of a proper mindset in order to tune yourself in chilling mode, when things actually go wrong.
Actually sounds like something I was trying to say a couple of weeks ago. Guess most statements make sense either way.
Strangely, your message really cheered me up in the morning; thanks for that :)
I guess my statement was generic enough to match quite a lot of cases.
What I particularly had in mind was worrying about small things without too much impact, like breaking with a habit to see if things work differently as well.
I think with thoughts like 'if i try to do this, i might make a bad impression, so better i don't try it even though i kinda would like to.' people confine themselves very much and take away their freedom to explore and enjoy the possibilities life offers to them.
Of course on realizing a real, big problem one should not ignore it but get down to find a solution. But these are relatively rare compared to all the little things one can worry about.
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